B was waking up often throughout the night and at 5:30 am for the day. I fell in love with this Good Nite Lite when I read about it in Parents Magazine. At the time it was on backorder. I was desperate for anything that was similar (B was 2 and had just moved to a big bed)! My hubby suggested we buy a timer from Lowes and connect it to the nightlight we were already using. We did it and it is AWESOME! I know it looks a little crazy, but it works for us and we saved some money.
Here is how it works for us:
- Set the timer to go on at bedtime (10 min. earlier than you would ever need).
- Set the timer to go off 10 min. or so after they normally wake up. Each week, set the timer 10 min. later until you reach your goal time.
The first night, make a big deal about the light being on.
We said, “Ooooh look! The nightlight is on. That means it’s time for bed. In the morning when you wake up, if the nightlight is still on that means it’s still time for more sleep. If you wake up and it is off, that means you can run to the door and shout Mom and Dad my nightlight is off. Time to get up!”
For the first week, B would wake up really early and I would go in there and say “Your nightlight is still on, that means it’s still time for more sleep” and I would tuck him back in. There was a little crying but he would go back to sleep.
I have occasionally heard him wake up in the middle of the night and say “Oh no, still more sleeping.” It has been months since we started using it and EVERY morning he wakes up and shouts “Mom, Dad, my nightlight is off. That means it’s time to get up!”.
*You can blame the nightlight – When B is putting up a fight about bedtime I say “Sometimes I’m not ready for bed either but LOOK the nightlight is on and you know what that means…time for bed.”
*Sometimes he wakes up before the nightlight goes off, BUT he doesn’t try to get up or call for us.
*We don’t use it at nap because that time varies a little bit for us. He often says “My nightlight isn’t on.” And I have to remind him that we don’t use it at nap time.
*When the nightlight goes off there is a very tiny click and sometimes I wonder if that actually wakes him up on days that he might sleep a little bit longer.